Learning to Shut Up

Ok, it’s no secret that I have a big mouth. I love to talk! I’ve often thought of it as a gift at times, thinking of how it has allowed me to make new friends, avoid awkward moments, or even speak publicly occasionally without throwing up (I do feel that way sometimes)!

But we all know there’s another side, a dark side, to this "talent". Many times, I fail miserably of just knowing when to be quiet! This is especially true when it comes to Bible discussion (or maybe a better word is DEBATE).

I had a spiritual revelation this week. Nothing new. Not some scripture I’d never read before (as a matter of fact, this scripture was highlighted and underlined). Often times, seasoned Christians can (and should) be pricked by familiar scriptures in a new way. It’s more of a matter of spiritual maturity than it is of scriptural memorization.

In Bible class, we’re studying 2 Timothy 2 and all of the advice that Paul (whom I considered the boldest apostle) is giving to his younger Christian brother, Timothy. He’s reminding him to tell the other Christians to avoid "quarreling about words" (v. 14 NIV). The verse goes on to say that it is of no value and hurtful to those who are witnessing it. Wow. That was powerful to me this week. Me, a zealous Christian, who’s usually ready for the "throw down" any time concerning doctrinal matters and any other discussion in between!

It’s a great point to ponder. Here’s the (arguably) most-passionate apostle who’s kept his spiritual fire for the Lord through several near-death experiences telling his son in the gospel to be gentle and pursue peace rather than give way to stupid arguments. (Yep, the NIV Bible says "stupid") He went on to say that they (the arguments) are pointless.

The heart of the matter is that when we argue about the Bible or any of its principles, we’ve taken God out of it and replaced spiritual truth with personal pride (you know, basically just "getting somebody told"). And that turns it all into "Godless chatter".

Now, none of this means we can’t have Bible discussion. We need that. God expects that. It’s just having the self-control to know when the discussion is fruitful and when it’s not. For instance, arguing with your colleague about how wrong he or she is to have instrumental music during the worship service, usually just leads you to losing a friend...not bringing someone to spiritual enlightenment. Wouldn’t it be easier to just study the Bible together without pointing fingers and calling names?

There’s lots of wisdom in Paul’s letter. He’s near his death in Rome and, as you can see, he’s wiser about a few things concerning the matters of Biblical discussion and exhortation. I think spiritual maturity brings you closer to the goal of knowing that the best persuader for Christ is living your Christianity out loud..not yelling about it!

I feel as though this newest growing pain has helped me to rise above my spiritually-adolescent thinking. Praise God for spiritual growth...