Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Hands

Today, we officially welcome Amanda Brazier with her first article for us at Far Above Rubies.





Hands are powerful. They can speak when words are insufficient. They can lift up the
brokenhearted and comfort the suffering. They can communicate love.

During our mission trip to the Dominican Republic last week, our hands did just that.

They held the hands of a little girl at VBS, when mouths could not speak the language.
They played simple hand games with a laughing child.
They formed a circle every night in a time of song and prayer.
They stacked victoriously over a completed puzzle during Community Day.
They supported a little boy as he crossed the monkey bars at the Childrenʼs Home.
They took the hands of a daughter and her elderly mother, who was crying in pain in the
hospital.
They painted the fingernails of women and girls who scavenged every day through the
town dump to find food and clothing.
They handed out peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and care packages to those who
had nothing.

They extended love to everyone they touched.
And they touched Jesus where ever they extended love.


 

















“And the King will reply, ʻI tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of
these brothers of mine, you did for me.” Matthew 25:40

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Eve's Choice

Where is the most beautiful place you've ever been?  What was the most peaceful and protected you have ever felt?  Can you picture your life with no stress, no worry, no To Do List?

Can you imagine having all of that - the beauty, the peace, the quiet mind -  all at once?  I honestly can't, but I imagine that is very close to what Eve must have had in the Garden of Eden.

What would it take for you to give that up - to even risk losing the perfection that surrounded you?  Maybe Eve didn't know how good she had it there in the garden with her husband.  Maybe she was ignorant of how sad life apart from God is, after all, she had no example of sin before her.

But maybe not.  Maybe she wanted more and was willing - knowingly willing - to risk everything to get it.  God gave her the free will to choose and so, maybe she felt she deserved to choose what she wanted over what she knew was right.

As we know, sin calls to us in three ways: lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes and the pride of life (1 John 2:16) and the serpent came at Eve with guns blazing. Genesis 3:6 tells us that Eve saw that the fruit was good for food [lust of the flesh], pleasing to the eye [lust of the eye] and desirable for gaining wisdom [pride of life].

Satan doesn't miss a trick, does he? 

And so, Eve ate the fruit. The Bible doesn't tell us if Satan came to Eve just that once or many times wearing her down. But it really doesn't matter. She made the choice and she faced the consequences. Suddenly, she was hiding from God and worried about her appearance. She and Adam were banished from paradise, from the perfection that had been created just for them. They would now have to work and worry, strain, stress and sacrifice And Sibelius every human that followed.

Thankfully, God - so full of love for his creation - has given humanity a second chance at paradise. And, like Eve, we are told plainly what is right and what is expected of us. But also like Eve, we are given a choice. We can follow the lusts of our flesh and eyes or our selfish pride trying to make our own versions of paradise here on Earth or we can chose the better thing, the real, eternal Paradise with God when this worry and strain-filled life is over.

I am thankful for the freedom to choose, but I am far more thankful for God's grace and the hope we have for eternal life with Him in the real paradise.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Are You Serious?

When I was approached via email by Erica about becoming part of Far Above Rubies as a contributing writer, my initial reaction was ‘are you serious?’. I actually typed that question to her in an email. Of course she (and the other ladies) were serious, but it really caught me by surprise that I would be asked to write. I was shocked, excited and honored by that offer from The Ruby Sisters. I never have considered myself a writer. Yeah, I’ve written a few poems, but haven’t we all? Then I got to thinking that EVERYONE has SOMETHING to write about. Yes, it may not always appeal to every reader that comes across it, but there will be some (at least your mom or husband or sister) who will enjoy reading what you write. Everyone has their own personal experiences from which others can glean valuable lessons from, or you know, at least a good chuckle. We all come from different backgrounds with different perspectives and different experiences and trials and emotions, etc. We can learn from each other though despite these differences. We’re all different, but yet we’re all the same too. For example, I may be going through one type of loss while another person may be struggling with a different type of loss, but we’re still both experiencing LOSS.  The experience may be different, but the feelings are the same.  So it is through these lenses, that I am going to share my words on Far Above Rubies and hopefully someone will enjoy reading it or possibly benefit by reading it, or you know, at least get a good chuckle for the day.

I want to thank The (original) Ruby Sisters for allowing me to be a part of this journey with you all and I can’t wait to read what the new Ruby Sisters have to share. Have a blessed day!

"Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, Sweetness to the soul and health to the bones."  Proverbs 16:24

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Punishment Fit for the Crime

Today we are proud to publish the first post by new Far Above Rubies writer, Janet Gant.  Thank you, Janet!




Birth (with the exceptions of Adam and Eve), Life and Death (with the exceptions of Enoch and Elijah) - the trio is a constant for man since the time he was banished from Eden. Yet, while the first two events may be cause for joy and celebration, the last may be cause for despair or at the very least some sort of distress and sadness. When Death comes knocking at our door, even at the end of a long and successful life, most people are not ready to answer the unsettling call. Much more so, when death is not only premature but cruel and violent, does it demand our acknowledgment and attention. Throughout human history, intentional abuse of a human resulting in death infuriates our sense of justice and cries out for compassion. With this sense of justice and compassion we look into the history of man to examine for ourselves the cruelest forms of death.

The ancient world had many forms of punishment and torture that resulted in death. The “summa supplicia” (or the ultimate punishments in ancient Rome) lists crucifixion, exposure to wild beasts and burning alive as their top three, of these crucifixion tops the chart as ‘the cruelest of deaths’.

Crucifixion was a public spectacle and meant to inflict “the most pain”, it was also considered the most debasing as “the condemned man was stripped naked and left exposed in his agony” while all the world look on. For exemplary effect, crucifixion was held at well-travelled public road to strike fear to passersby and to cause humiliation to the one hung on the cross.

This was not a thing that even the ancient world would want to ponder upon. Therefore it was not publicized in their writings or their historical records. From the few lines sprinkled here and there in their ancient literature, in the writings of play writers, poets, philosophers, orators and historians, we gather that crucifixion was widely practiced.

Yet acts so horrific and so numerous could be so easily swept under the proverbial rug of time and forgotten in the 21st century as not anything new if not for the weekly reminder of the cross of Christ in the Christian celebration of the Lord’s Supper. But, today the Christian is not any more shocked with the thought of the cross nor is the image of the cross an instrument of the cruelty looked upon with disdain. In fact, we embrace it as part of our religion. Have we softened the view of the cross to where it is no longer an instrument of death, pain, shame, humiliation and is it any longer remembered as an act of cruelty and inhumanity of man to man?

In fact the ancient Greeks and the Romans spoke of crucifixion as a practice among barbarians -Indians, Phoenicians, Persians, Assyrians, Sclythians, Celts, Taurians and Thracians. Neither would claim responsibility or culpability but downplay their own use of this form of execution.
But in fact, both Greeks and Romans practiced it shamelessly. Even though Rome did not invent this form of torture when they adopted it, they used it with vengeance and refined it to an art.
According to Theological Archaeological Review, “Before being crucified, the victim was stripped and bound to a column and scourged with a stick or flagellum, a Roman instrument with a short handle to which several long, thick thongs had been attached. On the ends of the leather thongs were lead or bone tips. Following the severe beating the horizontal beam was placed upon the condemned man’s shoulders and he began the long grueling march to the execution site. A soldier at the head of the procession carried the titulus, an inscription written on wood, which stated the defendant’s name and the crime for which he had been condemned. When the procession arrived at the execution site, a vertical stake was fixed into the ground. The victim’s feet were then nailed down against this vertical stake.”

“Without any supplementary body support, the victim would die from muscular spasms and asphyxia in a very short time, certainly within two or three hours. Shortly after being raised on the cross, breathing would become difficult, to get his breath, the victim would attempt to draw himself up on his arms. In order to prolong the agony, Roman executioners devised instruments that would keep the victims alive on the cross for extended periods of time.” One, such instrument known as the “sedile, was a small seat attached to the front of the cross, about halfway down” to allow the victim to support himself to get a breath. “To increase the victim’s suffering, the sedile was pointed, thus inflecting horrible pain.” Jesus agonized on the cross for 6 hours before he died.

In 315 AD, under Constantine, crucifixion was abolished in the Roman Empire. Hanging on the gallows gradually took the place of crucifixion and was essentially a more humane punishment.

Seneca, a Roman philosopher who lived during the time of Christ wrote in his Epistle 101 to Lucilius, “Can anyone be found who would prefer wasting away in pain dying limb by limb, or letting out his life drop by drop, rather than expiring once for all? Can any man be found willing to be fastened to the accursed tree, long sickly, already deformed, swelling with ugly weal on shoulders and chest, and drawing the breath of life amid long-drawn-out agony? He would have many excuses for dying even before mounting the cross.”

If you had a choice of death would you ever prefer crucifixion? How could God select such a death for Jesus? So if Jesus had to die for our sins why choose the cruelest form of all deaths? Would hanging not suffice the wrath of God? Would any form of death do? It is a no wonder that Jesus asked the Father if it were possible for “this cup to pass”, in the Garden of Gethsemane.

In our day and time when a criminal is sentenced to death, we try to administer it in the most humane way. The criminal may earn the right to die but not the added punishment of pain and suffering. So why did Christ have to suffer such a humiliating, painful and agonizing death?
Maybe in God’s eye the punishment had to fit the crime. Imagine a punishment that does not fit the crime - a person sentenced to 20 years in prison when he murdered and tortured countless people. Sometimes even when a person is sentenced to death, that punishment is still not equal to the atrocities committed. Just a painless death by injection sometimes does not do much for our sense of justice. If he had to suffer and feel the pain and agony of his victims, the punishment might better fit the crime.

Maybe death on the cross is God’s way of telling us how grievous sin is in His sight. Can we understand how horrible sin is to God? The punishment had to fit the sins we committed to satisfy the justice of God. How can we understand it unless God spoke to us in a language we can understand? Death by crucifixion is the punishment that befits the crimes we committed in our lives; it is just how horrible our sin is viewed by God. The action of Jesus’ suffering and death on the cross speaks louder to us than a thousand words. Yes, our sin is just that bad!
Also, the stark contrast to the darkness of the sins of humanity is the overwhelming, all consuming depth of God’s love. This contrast is why we are so profoundly inspired, touched, moved, and humbled. Not only because of guilt over our sinful nature but even more so because of the magnitude of God’s love and grace for humanity.

Each week as we celebrate the Lord’s Supper can we look at the cross for what it is - an instrument of death, pain and agony, humiliation and shame. Then, can we look past it to see the hideousness of our sins that warranted such a death for Christ? 'God, be merciful to me, a sinner!' (Luke 18:13). The punishment fits the crime but praise be to God for his immeasurable love, we do not have to pay for it.


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Friday, June 17, 2011

Ruby Sisters

For quite some time, Jennifer, Kenya, Yvonne and I have been considering taking on additional writers for Far Above Rubies.  We knew that there were many wonderful Christian women who could help bring the Word to other women and, after much discussion, we approached several women and asked them to join us.  Today, I announce to you, loyal readers, our new Ruby Sisters.







Amanda Brazier is an artist and youth minister's wife.  She is a graduate of Freed-Hardeman University.

Amy Copas is a librarian and library branch manager.  She is the wife of Shannon and mother of 5 year-old Stone.
Jane Hass recently celebrated her 30th anniversary with her husband Nile.  They have two grown sons.
Janet Gant is a graduate of Harding University.  She and her husband Keith have two grown children and one brand-new granddaughter.
Becky McCormick met her husband Phil at Harding College (now Harding University) where she studied nursing.  They have two grown children and she is still adjusting to the "empty nest" years!
Hannah Smith is a recent high school graduate (who was her class salutatorian) and is headed to Freed-Hardeman in the fall.  She also writes here.











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Thursday, June 16, 2011

The Virtuous Teenage Girl

I came across this adaptation of Provers 31 by Patsy Norwood of Evergreen, North Carolina, in the January/February 2010 issue of Christian Woman magazine and I thought it would interest the readers here.

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Who can find a virtuous teenage girl?  For her worth is far above rubies.
The heart of her parents safely trusts her; they do not have to worry.
She does her parents good and not evil all the days of her life.
She is eager to learn and works willingly with her hands.
She knows her way around the grocery store and shops for the best buys.
She makes a habit of rising early and prepares herself for the day.
She is careful with her money and makes wise purchases.
She takes care of herself and does not abuse her body.
She does her work thoroughly and does not half-heartedly complete her tasks.
She takes ownership of her tasks and uses determination to complete them.
When she sees someone in need, she does her best to help.
She plans carefully and does not put off or delay what she knows she should do.
She cares for her clothing and makes every effort to have a neat and clean appearance.
She makes her parents proud and brings them great pleasure.
She is industrious and looks for ways to help out.
She is honorable and trustworthy and will reap rewards in the future as a result.
She thinks things through and speaks kindly to others.
She is productive with the use of her time and does not waste it.
Her parents are proud of her and praise her for her efforts.
She realizes that outward beauty is passing and that inner beauty is pleasing to the Lord.
Because of her actions and the choices she makes, she is well thought of and receives much praise.

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That is the gold standard, isn't it?  What a virtuous woman this girl would grow up to be!  Thoughts? 


Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it"

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Thou Shalt Move



A few weeks ago, I got to Bible study extra early. (I should probably repeat that first sentence to inspire us all, right?) Like most busy women, being extra early for church service is a very rare occurrence (I’m embarrassed to say). But this particular Wednesday, I had almost an hour to spare. I sat in the car with my two youngest boys wasting time by playing with my cell phone and listening to the radio. As I played the “Wait Game,” I peeked around the parking lot and noticed that a couple of other families were in their cars doing the exact same thing…waiting.

No one wanted to go in the building too early. I guess everyone has their reasons. It wasn’t that the doors were locked or that we’re forbidden to go in the building before services actually began. But for some reason we were all moved to not move

After about 20 minutes or so of checking my emails and sending follow-up text messages to family and friends, I decided I would turn the air conditioning off in my car, save some gas, and move toward the building. I figured the worst thing that could happen is that we’d sit in a quiet church auditorium until the multitudes began to arrive.

As we opened the door and entered the lobby, it was easy to see that the church building was still very much asleep. Lights were off and there wasn’t a soul insight. Then suddenly a petite, elderly woman appeared out of the darkness and said “Hello!”

I was surprised to see her. She was a familiar face, but we’d never actually met each other before. Her name was Evelyn Elmore. I thought it was cute that she immediately asked me was I visiting for the first time. I giggled a bit and told her that my family and I had been members for nearly two years now. She laughed too and said that we must sit behind her and that she was always taught that you never turned around to see who’s sitting behind you in church service. I’ve heard that rule too.

As we moved into the auditorium and travelled down the center aisle, we continued to interview each other to get acquainted. Ms. Evelyn has sweet little rituals she does before service begins. She rereads the church bulletin from the previous Sunday to make sure she doesn’t miss any important information. As we got closer to the front, I could see her finger point to pew, and she counted back six rows.
“I always sit on the 6th row,”  she said. “I think we’ve gone down too far.”

I giggle a little more and sit across the aisle on the same row with my sons, BJ and Jackson. I guess I assumed that our precious conversation was over, but I was mistaken. Ms. Evelyn was merely getting her belongings situated on the pew and then she moved over to chat with me a little bit more.
She complimented me on the good behavior of my children and told me about what it was like raising her own two boys. Realizing that we both still had lots more to share about our lives, I stood back up and escorted her back to her seat. I had decided that I would move away from my comfort zone and enjoy the service sitting next to my new friend.



Guide older women into lives of reverence so they end up as neither gossips nor drunks, but models of goodness. By looking at them, the younger women will know how to love their husbands and children, be virtuous and pure, keep a good house, be good wives.
Titus 2:3-5 (The Message)